Your take on girls calling guys DA

[pandabear]

The recent trend is that when a girl befriends a guy, the respect quotient is done with and she adds a 'da' for every sentence, but guys refrain to use 'di' and girls feel it is degradory. Why is this trend catching on? Dont guys have any self respect or are they plain despo to spend time with girls? I am a guy and I hate and stay away from these girls. Would like to see comments from the community (both guys and girls) on what they feel about this... Your take on this issue...