'Crush' trouble again! Advice needed, folks!

**ramky** · 18th August 2006, 11:05 AM

Bipolar, since she feels awkward talking to you, why dont u call her and clarify things to her ? If thats not possible, drop her a letter explaining things and add that you would like to meet her and explain it also, if she's ok with it.

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**malsi** · 19th August 2006, 06:59 AM

can i say something bipolar..just gv urself abt a month...dont confess anything to her...

after one month..if you still feel the same for her..then talk to her..tell her abt ur feelings..

because sometimes..this kind of feelings may go away..it might be a kind of an attraction..or may be infatuation..or as u say crush...

im sure many people here must hv experienced the same..

**pavalamani pragasam** · 19th August 2006, 09:12 AM

What malsi says is correct

**malsi** · 19th August 2006, 02:28 PM

thanks PP mam..actually saying this out of my own experience

**Bipolar** · 19th August 2006, 03:08 PM

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**Sanguine Sridhar** · 19th August 2006, 03:28 PM

Bipolar dont listen to advices..this is my advice! Because this is your life,I thought of telling this as the first post but i want to see what others are discussing. If you like her go ahead and tell.If she accepts your proposal well and good.If she say no..stay away from her.Concentrate on other things and wait for the approrpriate girl.Do this to your advantage or ignore it to your peril!

**Nakeeran** · 19th August 2006, 03:40 PM

Sanguine

At times past personal experience also helps a lot . Gives right direction .
So, I would suggest to hear opinions & then take a final call .

Yeah. ur destiny is urs & its up to u to decide ur future. true

Also appreciate the fact that Bipolar had created a thread only to hear suggestions from others

**crazy** · 19th August 2006, 03:48 PM

Originally Posted by Bipolar

I've explained this to my friends, and here I am, explaining this to you guys, but so far, I haven't had the chance to explain it to her!

But as I said, I'm able to concentrate on my work a little more these days, so maybe I can slowly let it go, even if I never explain it to her (we're in our final year, we have another 11 months to go before we finish our course and leave university... I'm probably never going to see her after that... so then it might not matter...)... I would feel bad if the misunderstanding was never cleared up, but I guess sometimes that's life...

Hope u get a little time to explain what u just explained to us and ur friends

Good luck with ur studies

**Sanguine Sridhar** · 19th August 2006, 04:16 PM

Originally Posted by Nakeeran

Sanguine

At times past personal experience also helps a lot . Gives right direction .
So, I would suggest to hear opinions & then take a final call .

Yeah. ur destiny is urs & its up to u to decide ur future. true

Also appreciate the fact that Bipolar had created a thread only to hear suggestions from others

Ofcourse that is my suggestion

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