Originally Posted by Tia
I'd probably Still End Up Getting Married.
I'll Consider Living With Someone Before Marriage For Sure....But I'm Not Sure If I'll Go All The Way Since It's New To Us...(This is given that future generations won't have a prob living together)
Even Now, I don't Care What Society Things. Society Won't Be Something That I Consider If I Meet Someone I Want To Live With....
If society didn't interfere in my life, then I'd rather live with someone I liked than marriage
Originally Posted by Tia
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my first reaction was
getting married: i'm not sure if its a good thing for u but its an awesome thing for people coming to ur wedding cos they get to buy nice new expensive clothes for a good reason
Originally Posted by Surya
THALAPTHY RAJINI -ILAYATHALAPTHY VIJAY!
so....
SUPERSTAR RAJINI - NEXT SUPERSTAR VIJAY!
gorgeous gaayini ~ Ghlli ~ now Tia
Mathavange puthu dress potukka naanu life-imprisonment contract sign pannanuma?! Ithu Nalla Ideava irruke!
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Marriage is the celebration of the union of 2 people. It means that you are only committed to this particular person.
Also to show the whole world to "stay away from my girl/man" :P .
Surya the basis of marriage was to apply one man one woman concept living together for the rest of your lives...sure sex(in terms of creation) does come in but main part of marriage is alot more than that.
* Sharing ideas and plans on how to lead life together
* Trying to read into each others characters(understanding)
* Wanting to make their love eternal by spending it together
which is only some of the points. There is alot more than this. It just happens that people misread marriage as a tool to spread their generation and satisfy their hidden lust while there are more diverse things like planning , compromising,making ends meet etc. Sometimes marriage can be a guide to success as characters do improve for the better in marriage and there is someone whom you can rely on when you have the feelings burning inside you. Marriage is more towards emotions and characteristics.
Creating your next generation with someone whom you desire may be done through marriage or not depending on how they perceive it but humans are knowledgeable enough to know it is lot more than just creating.
As for sex, exposure to it at a young age and the breeding of lust without any sufficient control made westerners so addicted to it you see it like it is was just happening for years. That in part also washes their mindset from viewing their partner as a individual with feelings.
Mostly everyone who posted here accept that marriage means commitment, but that is main thing lacking in marriages now a days. How many people remain loyal to the commitment.
Sorry for offending you guys, I overheard one of my family friend proposing to go on tour to Bangkok and "profit and enjoy" which my hubby refused (luckily for me) the friend was telling that they were group of childhood friends (all of them married)who make regularly trips to Thailand to "enjoy" if his wife thought like that, what would he say. The worst thing is that this guys acts like Raman in front of his wife that poor thing believes. I think these people should not get married at all, you can enjoy all your life without getting married.
This happened recently so I am bit too sorry
Well said, Solona!
I was in the US on a business trip when some of my friends (even those married) urged on me to this same Thailand kind of adventure! I couldnt understand how even those that were married could entertain such thoughts!
With what courage would these men return to face their wives?
And what would they do if they discovered that while they were away in the US, their wives were also going to "Thailand"?
I remember telling them this very harshly. Some two or three guys felt the stinging truth of my words and desisted! For several others, however, the flesh was stronger than their spirit, their will, their 'thanmaanam', their love and their belief in an institution called marriage!
Apologies to Thailand and Thai people, for having used "Thailand" in this sense. It was merely an extension of what solona had said
When we stop labouring under the delusion of our cosmic self-importance, we are free of hindrance, fear, worry and attachment. We are liberated!!!
Eager to watch the trends of the world & to nurture in the youth who carry the future world on their shoulders a right sense of values.
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