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  • I'd probably Still End Up Getting Married.

    9 64.29%
  • I'll Consider Living With Someone Before Marriage For Sure....But I'm Not Sure If I'll Go All The Way Since It's New To Us...(This is given that future generations won't have a prob living together)

    1 7.14%
  • Even Now, I don't Care What Society Things. Society Won't Be Something That I Consider If I Meet Someone I Want To Live With....

    3 21.43%
  • If society didn't interfere in my life, then I'd rather live with someone I liked than marriage

    1 7.14%
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    Senior Member Senior Hubber kannannn's Avatar
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sanguine Sridhar
    Marriage gives you security,happiness,relations,enjoyment,sadness etc., Idhu thaaney vaazhkai!
    Security is the only reason to stay married. All other factors are present in a live-in arrangement too. Infact, if there was a legal security to live-in system, marriage would become superflous. Many would be happy to live-in if we had the societal and legal approval to such an arrangement. I respect the UK lawmakers in this regard for trying to put in place a system, whereby live-in partners have legal protection too.
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    Quote Originally Posted by shalushalu
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    Support for 'living together trend' is being canvassed here!
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    There has been a big misunderstanding that marriage keeps security of a relationship. Let us remember that mindset of the two persons determine whether their relationship is secure or not.

    Even if two people are married through a ritual, it does not give guarantee that their mindsets will be free from other relationships. To keep a relationship secure one does not need a marriage ritual or ceremony..all they need is mutual understanding, the knowing of what is right and wrong and love...without these three..even if you do marry through a ritual or ceremony the possibilities of multiple relationships or illegal affairs are very high.

    Another thing we must remember is that marriage ceremonies were created by humans not god. If god had created marriage rituals and things like thalis etc the husband or wife might have been punished if they try to go astray by divine interventions. So far no such thing has happened and it shows clearly that its the mindset of the husband or wife that decides such things.

    An advice to all people who want to have a secure relationship for life: Make sure both of you love each other and mutually understand each other if not having a secure relationship is a goner. Love and understanding builds secure relationships not marriage rituals and ceremonies.

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    Love and understanding builds secure relationships not marriage rituals and ceremonies

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    ""Love and understanding builds secure relationships not marriage rituals and ceremonies""

    Fantastic Hulkster..

    Really agree with you..

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    Yet, they add colour & magic to memories which will come in handy when the going gets tough Who does not love fun & merriment? Parading & feasting? Happy get together of kith & kin? :P
    Eager to watch the trends of the world & to nurture in the youth who carry the future world on their shoulders a right sense of values.

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    Quote Originally Posted by pavalamani pragasam
    Yet, they add colour & magic to memories which will come in handy when the going gets tough Who does not love fun & merriment? Parading & feasting? Happy get together of kith & kin? :P

    I'm not a ritual fanatic (infact I dont like being in those tat r too long/complicated ) but I wonder how come no-one speaks against modern 'rituals' like late-night partying/clubbing/pubbing, watching movies (most of which IMO suck & r meaningless nowadays neways! Esp. down south... )

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