Mother in law VS dau in law

**ajithfederer** · 15th May 2006, 10:26 PM

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**Shakthiprabha.** · 15th May 2006, 10:27 PM

Most housewives these days has money transfered to their acccount, which they operate using credit cards.

Fine I got ur point that

asking != permission.

What I try to stress here is the USAGE OF WORD. Money is not a phenomenon that only men grant and women ask or DEMAND. (or vice versa too)

Its not merely running day to day household exp, EVERY SINGLE EXP, I believe if its a family need to be CONSULTED for spending.

A man if he needs to spend money, NEED TO CONSULT HIS WIFE. and obviously vice versa.

ofcourse

ASKING != DEMAND too

its mere consulting.

I do not wanna diffentiate bet men and women
or
differentiate between working women and hosuewives(which I ofcousre understood u did not differentiate too)

Its not just money, any DECISION MAKING process, is an event which needs to be UNANIMOUSLY consulted.

and ..

No! I aint getting worked up. I am just stressing/sharing my stand or view point. nothing more than that.

**Shakthiprabha.** · 15th May 2006, 10:28 PM

Originally Posted by ajithfederer

sp akka velai seyyarathu illainu kuthi kaamikureengalaa?

ithula enna sirippu vendi kidakku

ungalukku hammer adi kudukalainnu great romba varuthapadaraar. kuduthudara

**great** · 15th May 2006, 10:28 PM

Originally Posted by ajithfederer

That will never happen........

Originally Posted by ssanjinika

Originally Posted by ajithfederer

all maamiars and marumagals should be fitin all day........so that we boys can kulur kaanjufy in their fites......

Wait till you get married and your wife and your mom involves you in their fights

yean uNNAkku ponnu kudukka maatangala

**ajithfederer** · 15th May 2006, 10:32 PM

del.......

**great** · 15th May 2006, 10:32 PM

sorry da

**Shakthiprabha.** · 15th May 2006, 10:33 PM

af,

sirichu pesittu irukkum pothu.....
sentimentala pesiteenga.

sorry bout it af.

**Shakthiprabha.** · 15th May 2006, 10:33 PM

**ssanjinika** · 15th May 2006, 10:35 PM

I dont know about consulting for the small things shakthi.Big items like buying a flat panel TV or a Recliner I understand

but small things like flowers for the house or even an inexpensive dress for yourself,I dont think needs consultation.What if you want to suprise your hubby with a new shirt for him.You dont have to consult them to use money for that rite.I do get your point and thats definitely valid for any big use of money.Otherwise its not that big a deal rite