Love Marriage Vs Arranged Marriage

hi · 11th April 2006, 02:20 PM

There is a higher % of divorce in Love marriage than arranged one's..

probably becoz.. when they r in courtship.. they try to impress the girl... but after marriage fail to maintain it...

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**Fire111999** · 11th April 2006, 02:23 PM

Originally Posted by hi

There is a higher % of divorce in Love marriage than arranged one's..

probably becoz.. when they r in courtship.. they try to impress the girl... but after marriage fail to maintain it...

probably. it's difficult to act nice all the time.

but this wouldn't be a problem if they feel in love without proper courtship, if u know what i mean. then they would know what each other is like.

**Shakthiprabha.** · 11th April 2006, 02:24 PM

Just one question...............

How can we fall in love IMMEDIATELY with a person............... who is been arranged BY THE WHOLEEEEEEEEEEEE FAMILY, cause of various PRACTICAL reasons

I personally feel in love mariages, PPL ARE IN LOVE so....... they get married

In arranged marraiages............. PPL ARE SANE, PRACTICAL, SELFISH TO SEE THEIR MATERIAL NEEDS FIRST(throw ur emotions in dustbin) .................. THEN FINALLY SLOWWWWWLY they fall in love....... (may take months or sometime even a year

).

I do not personally subscribe to arrange marriages for various personal views which is LIL EMBARASSING to be discussed here.

hi · 11th April 2006, 02:32 PM

In arranged marriage.. just by seeing his/her financial status.. studies and family BG.. ppl will agree to get married.. without giving room to emotions...

**Fire111999** · 11th April 2006, 02:33 PM

Originally Posted by Shakthiprabha

Just one question...............

How can we fall in love IMMEDIATELY with a person............... who is been arranged BY THE WHOLEEEEEEEEEEEE FAMILY, cause of various PRACTICAL reasons

I personally feel in love mariages, PPL ARE IN LOVE so....... they get married

In arranged marraiages............. PPL ARE SANE, PRACTICAL, SELFISH TO SEE THEIR MATERIAL NEEDS FIRST(throw ur emotions in dustbin) .................. THEN FINALLY SLOWWWWWLY they fall in love....... (may take months or sometime even a year

).

I do not personally subscribe to arrange marriages for various personal views which is LIL EMBARASSING to be discussed here.

i don't think it is possible for one to immediately fall in love. that's why i think they should get to know each other before marriage.

i'm personally not sure which type of marriage to support.

but since i am too insecure emotionally to fall in love in case the love doesn't lead up to marriage, i'd go with arranged. i couldn't fall in love with someone and then marry someone else. so i'd rather fall in love with the person i marry!

**Sandeep** · 11th April 2006, 02:39 PM

Why worry about which is better.

If in the process of living you happen to meet someone and want to spend your life (huh!) with them then fall in love and get married. Otherwise when time comes your family will help you out.

**swathy** · 11th April 2006, 02:43 PM

Both Love and arranged has its own plus and minus. It depends on the individuals.
I strongly believe that marriage is the decision by the super power.

Innarukku Innar endru yeludhivaithane devan andru

**Sanguine Sridhar** · 11th April 2006, 02:51 PM

Originally Posted by swathy

Both Love and arranged has its own plus and minus. It depends on the individuals.
I strongly believe that marriage is the decision by the super power.
Innarukku Innar endru yeludhivaithane devan andru

I believe the question is Love vs Arranged! Give us your comment..Which one is better? And not the percentage.Huh!!

**swathy** · 11th April 2006, 02:57 PM

Originally Posted by Sanguine Sridhar

Originally Posted by swathy

Both Love and arranged has its own plus and minus. It depends on the individuals.
I strongly believe that marriage is the decision by the super power.
Innarukku Innar endru yeludhivaithane devan andru

I believe the question is Love vs Arranged! Give us your comment..Which one is better? And not the percentage.Huh!!

I have given already. chk previous page.

yendha threadla last post swathynnu thedittu varuviya?

**Fire111999** · 11th April 2006, 03:06 PM

Originally Posted by Sandeep

Why worry about which is better.

If in the process of living you happen to meet someone and want to spend your life (huh!) with them then fall in love and get married. Otherwise when time comes your family will help you out.

i guess so. but i have reservations abt letting myself fall in love cos it might not end in marriage.