Love Marriage Vs Arranged Marriage

[sanguine]

Arranged / love / love cum arranged / arranged cum love / whateva - If the two are sane minded and matured enough to make the right decision,any type of marriage would work

Basically,its the type of people and not the type of marriage.clumsy and confused people are those who struggle everywhere - education - career - marriage - life

[Querida]

Stranger insists:

Q: I used "freedom" in the sense that freedom of "go for love" and then "go for marriages" as you wish!

Again this is not freedom, it is morals..there has to be a lack of morals for someone to go "freely" from love to marriage so easily...they are not taking either relationship seriously

* The parents can not guide you here as they are unaware of the kids attitude and they dont understand what is "love marriage" really means here.

* because the parents are married by arranged. So they are lost!

Yes but parents do know what's right and wrong...any parent even if arranged knows it's wrong to let their child to sleep around no? If you do it in the name of love....again it is a question of your morals...there are many people "fall in love" and still stay abstinent till marriage.

aS SUCH i am 100 percent AGAINST arranged marriage and its concept.

See, what is the meaning "love marriage" according to SP as she is 100% against arranged marriage

How is she exactly suggesting to choose one's parner in the Indian environment

Tell me what you have understood!

First of all that's for SP to answer but in choosing a partner wisely in ANY cultural environment is to use your moral judgement, people only choose their partners because they perceive they have the right to do whether or not their parents give them the freedom to do so. And That Stranger my friend is what I understood...repliez-vous?

[stranger]

And That Stranger my friend is what I understood...repliez-vous?

Q:

morality is a complicated issue and touchy subject!

[Querida]

Stranger thanx I really needed the laugh

[Thirumaran]

Love Marriage : Commiting Suicide..

Arranged Marriage : Sentenced to death

Result is same.

Why a discussion then

[great]

Love Marriage : Commiting Suicide..

Arranged Marriage : Sentenced to death

Result is same.

Why a discussion then

Thirumaran`s punch

[Fire111999]

i think the last two post are more relevant to another thread abt whether one should get married or not!

[hi]

One ..crucial thing abt Love Marriage is :

"ASTROLOGY"

Lovers .. think that one way is to convince parents.. through astro... but sadly.. most of the time it fails... as the horoscope doesn't go along well with eachother

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[Shakthiprabha.]

Have you seen the success of "love-marriages" in western civilization where POVERTY is predominant and TOO MUCH of FREEDOM is given

Who spoke about success of arranged marriages?
I just mentioned, THE WAY OF CHOSING A PARTNER should be the person's choice and not by the family's choice.

Almost 90% of women are single-mothers as they slept with an irresponsible guy for FUN in their teenage. The ENOUGH FREEDOM they had helped them to become a single mother !!!

Chosing ur partner, does not mean, sleeping with any guy at TEENAGE and become single mom.

WE ARE NOT TALKING MORALITY. wE, I UNDERSTAND, ARE TALKING ABOUT ''''chooosing the partner on one's own'''
andddd marrying him or her.

Is that what you WANT in the name of freedom

You have to be MORE careful when you are given freedom. Because you dont have anybody to blame but yourself!

BY Freedom, I meant TO CHOSE UR PARTNER, NOT TO MISUSE AND SLEEP AROUND WITH MEN OR WOMEN.

[Fire111999]

nalla sonnenga SP!