Ethics ethical values and WOMEN

**Badri** · 11th April 2006, 11:44 AM

Originally Posted by Prabhu Ram

Ina mAnam kAttha thOzhar Badri vAzhga !

Well, when women like SP are out baying for our blood,

guess we men just have to band together and go on with life!!!

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**pavalamani pragasam** · 11th April 2006, 11:49 AM

badri, that's the spirit!

**Shakthiprabha.** · 11th April 2006, 11:49 AM

Originally Posted by sbadri99

Originally Posted by Prabhu Ram

Ina mAnam kAttha thOzhar Badri vAzhga !

Well, when women like SP are out baying for our blood,

guess we men just have to band together and go on with life!!!

Sorry I tried, but could not find worse icons :P

**Badri** · 11th April 2006, 11:54 AM

You didnt have to find any worse icons, SP, than the original poll question!

Heheh! Jus' kiddin'

**Shakthiprabha.** · 11th April 2006, 12:01 PM

**Lambretta** · 11th April 2006, 12:08 PM

Originally Posted by Shakthiprabha

Dress code is individual taste, and DEF THAT DOES NOT SIGNIFY anything regarding their character.

I have a friend who wears tight t.shirt and shorts but is THE MOST STRONG WILLED with very high INDIAN ETHICS imbibed in her.

I also have seen women clad in saree, who just jump at any chance.
sorry....... dress does not reveal char.

SP, of course its not true tat all women in Sarees r Sitas, Savitris....nor is it true tat all western outfits r indecent......
But still, personally, I think it awkward & see no reason y tight or short outfits wud look welcoming....
And no, its not as if only women r always targeted in this case- ther r many women who hav revulsion even if men wear the shirt w/ the first 1-2 buttons open (was common in the '70s/80s!) or walk around in a towel around their waist (at home).....as I said, my father declined me wearing shorts saying tat it was considered rude in front of ladiess & wud make them feel uncomfy.....altho I personally havnt known how true tat is.....

**Fire111999** · 11th April 2006, 12:43 PM

Originally Posted by Sandeep

Originally Posted by sbadri99

Men have now been spared!

Badri the old one was better

. It gave men the license to be "loose charactered" but at the same time questioned women from being so.

i hope u don't really mean that!

**Fire111999** · 11th April 2006, 12:49 PM

Originally Posted by Shakthiprabha

Dress code is individual taste, and DEF THAT DOES NOT SIGNIFY anything regarding their character.

I have a friend who wears tight t.shirt and shorts but is THE MOST STRONG WILLED with very high INDIAN ETHICS imbibed in her.

I also have seen women clad in saree, who just jump at any chance.

sorry....... dress does not reveal char.

i think while the dress might not be a total representation of character (though it is as well, and not necessarily in a bad way), perhaps the way in which it is worn would reflect the person's character.

taking a saree for example (i am using a saree here cos it is the easiest example n cos i feel more pple will agree with me), it can be worn both in an obscene way and in a beautiful way!

**Fire111999** · 11th April 2006, 01:04 PM

Originally Posted by Lambretta

Originally Posted by Shakthiprabha

Dress code is individual taste, and DEF THAT DOES NOT SIGNIFY anything regarding their character.

I have a friend who wears tight t.shirt and shorts but is THE MOST STRONG WILLED with very high INDIAN ETHICS imbibed in her.

I also have seen women clad in saree, who just jump at any chance.
sorry....... dress does not reveal char.

SP, of course its not true tat all women in Sarees r Sitas, Savitris....nor is it true tat all western outfits r indecent......
But still, personally, I think it awkward & see no reason y tight or short outfits wud look welcoming....
And no, its not as if only women r always targeted in this case- ther r many women who hav revulsion even if men wear the shirt w/ the first 1-2 buttons open (was common in the '70s/80s!) or walk around in a towel around their waist (at home).....as I said, my father declined me wearing shorts saying tat it was considered rude in front of ladiess & wud make them feel uncomfy.....altho I personally havnt known how true tat is.....

totally agree with you there, anna!

regarding tight or short outfits, i think it depends on the person wearing it, cos i've always felt that thinner girls look pretty in tight or short outfits and i feel that girls who are slightly plump, like myself, moderately tight or moderately short outfits are fine as long as it's not indecent.

actually now that i think abt it, perhaps tight or short outfits are not too appropriate in india

yup, though i won't say revulsion, i usually feel a bit uncomfortable if guys leave 2 or more buttons undone.

i think guys shouldn't wear short shorts in front of ladies, but i am ok with knee-length or just over the knees trousers (i guess cos i'm used to that, ladies in india might not be used to that as well)

**Shakthiprabha.** · 11th April 2006, 02:32 PM

So. There it is. Thats what I wanted to say.

DRESS by itself DONT REVEAL a person's char.

a SHORTS OR T.SHIRT is perfect if worn BY APPROPRIATE person in appropriate way.

SO dont condemn dresses or dressing. Condemn the way IN WHICH ITS WORN or.........carefree attitude towards their personal structure or physique which may or may not suit a particular dress.