LIFE BEFORE MARRIAGE Vs LIFE AFTER MARRIAGE

**Lambretta** · 7th April 2006, 09:10 PM

Originally Posted by Raikkonen

Marriage aana avlo advantages..

Nalla cook pannalam... etc

Abbah! Intha oru point thaana??

Ithu naale thaan pomblenguh nammale intha vishayathile underestimate pannaranguh!

All men are different. All husbands are the same

NTR garu, ithu + pointaa, - pointaa??

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**Alan** · 7th April 2006, 09:12 PM

Yeah, the apt topic for someone who's countng his days to get married & can seldom concentrate on anything but his childhood sweetheart

Man, don't let the romantic in me die so young- we'll think about it after a couple of years!

**Lambretta** · 7th April 2006, 09:19 PM

Originally Posted by Alan

Yeah, the apt topic for someone who's countng his days to get married & can seldom concentrate on anything but his childhood sweetheart

Well Paaji, on the bright side, atleast u dont hav to concentrate on her once u hav her rite in front of u all the time!

On the downside, tat does, in many a marriage nowadays, also tend to lead to a time wen one can concentrate on nething but their spouse!

**pavalamani pragasam** · 7th April 2006, 09:20 PM

Cook panrathu yaaru???

**Lambretta** · 7th April 2006, 09:21 PM

Originally Posted by pavalamani pragasam

Cook panrathu yaaru???

Aah......now TATs an important point for u to think abt, NTR garu!

U may hav sumthin to say abt this since u'd mentioned abt cooking!

**Shakthiprabha.** · 7th April 2006, 09:34 PM

selva,

muthalla nalla irukkum.

apram nammakkunnu oruthar care panna illaiyEnnu 45 years kku mela thonum

**pavalamani pragasam** · 7th April 2006, 09:36 PM

When it is too late!!!

**Shakthiprabha.** · 7th April 2006, 09:42 PM

yup pp maam.

But u know what, one of my distant relative used to argue...

"I CAN FIND someone at 45 for just emotional support".

But the fact is, IT JUST DOES NOT COME AS A PACKAGE.

It has to develop......... thro thorns and roses.

Its interesting to know, that she is MARRIED AND HAPPY indeed too

**goodsense** · 8th April 2006, 04:28 AM

One old man was trying to find me a partner last year. Then he said to me one day, what is marriage pointing to his wife? He said all life he struggled to look after some 40 people on top of his head including his wife. His son also said to me that he wished he were in my place - single.

No doubt there are pros and cons to being a bachelor/spinster. At times you are happy being single and at other times, wish you were with a spouse; your ideal partner. This is life. I guess as you get older you wish you were married. But over the years you do develop friendship good enough to be companion, I mean someone to converse with and share your social life. Not our customs, but seem to be the trend of the time.

A few month ago I visited one woman in hospital. She is about 60 years old. She was surprised I am still single, seeing me after 13/14 years. She said she knows many good single people (including her daughter and some single males) who are not getting married, it must be the sign of the time

Selva, is right, being single you spend lots of your time doing "charity". You don't have much personal freedom as people from the outside assume

Now i have learnt to ignore phone calls from people seeking some kind of help, taking up almost all the time you have left for yourself. You want to help out but not like this. Then the family makes their own demands, claiming you are single and the older rest, busy with family life. Tough