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    ""LOVE MARRIAGE VS ARRANGE MARRIAGE:""



    Topic started by CHANDAN SINGH BISHT (@ bayliss.coventry.ac.uk) on Mon Jan 21 13:36:36 .




    Which one you want?????!!!!!! Choice is yours

    Love marriage vs Arranged marriage:

    Which one do you want??!!

    1. Love Marriage:

    Resembles procedural programming language. We have
    some set functions like flirting, going to movies
    together, making long conversations on phone and then
    try to fit all
    functions to the candidate we like.

    Arranged Marriage:
    Similar to object oriented programming approach. We
    first fix the candidate and then try to implement
    functions on her. The main object is fixed and
    various
    functions are added to supplement the main program.
    The functions can be added or deleted.

    2. Love Marriage:
    It is a throwaway tye of prototype as client
    requirements rises with time thus it is a dynamic
    system and difficult to maintain.

    Arranged Marriage:

    Requirements are well defined so use of waterfall
    model is possible.

    3. Love Marriage:
    Family system hangs because hardware called
    parents
    are not responding.

    Arranged Marriage:
    Compatible with hardware i.e Parents.

    4. Love Marriage:
    You are the project leader so u are responsible
    for
    implementation and execution of PROJECT- married
    life.

    Arranged Marriage:
    You are a team member under project leader parents
    so they are responsible for successful execution
    of project Married life.


    5. Love Marriage:

    Client expectations include exciting feature as
    spouse cooking food,washing clothes etc.

    Arranged Marriage:
    All these features are covered in the SRS as
    required features.

    6. Love Marriage:

    Acceptance test possible you can try before you
    Buy.

    Arranged Marriage:

    Product is sold as it is where it is basis.
    Product once sold will not be taken back.




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    Kuyil (@ p9-1*) on: Mon Apr 12 12:06:27 EDT 2004




    Love marriage for me

    it's me who's going to live with my husband. so, i have my say in the choice. i can't let my parents choose my life partner for me. but if they don't approve the one i love, i won't get married till my family accepts this union.





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    ... (@ zama*) on: Mon Apr 26 12:27:11 EDT 2004




    Love marriage, u luv, then divorce {hpns mosta the time}
    Arranged marriage, u learn 2 luv each other the proper way {I MEANT MENTALLY and PHYSICALLY}





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    aish (@ 195.*) on: Wed Apr 28 06:29:36 EDT 2004




    love marriage/ arrange marriage: i believe in my religion their is no such thing as arrange marriage or love marriage it is a tradition that society has followed i follow my religion in islam that i will marry someone who i can spend my life preparing for here and after!i will only marry with my parents blessings as they should be happy for me if not then i shall not marry untill they do.





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    maxiliano (@ host*) on: Wed Jun 16 17:07:29




    m perece horrible xq no hay logik la pareja no c kiere , noc xq hay gente q casa x interes CARAJO!!!!!!!! sera x dinero o x vacilonga !!!!!!!!!!! ag q asko m dan pena las personas q c casan x interes np tienen vida !





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    meera karani (@ ) on: Thu Jul 15 14:58:45




    arrange marriage according is more suitable because luv starts growing after marriage or during n tends to grow stronger while in love marriage by the time its marriage time all the spice of luv n romance is in the process of diminishing





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    nirosha (@ j45.*) on: Tue Jul 20 00:17:25 EDT 2004




    Truth is, in arranged marriages it is the families that select each other to marry. The couple is only the secondary consideration! At least in love marriages, you marry someone you do know and have developed a fondness for. It is a myth to say that sex dies down early only in love marriages. All marriages eventually undergo this dilemma when other considerations take precedence like children and other mundane matters of existence. Worse still, if we have to share premises with other fly members like in-laws!!





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    blubee47 (@ 4.13*) on: Tue Jul 27 01:47:05 EDT 2004




    Well All my life i guess i was never able to decide what i wanted and in the end got into a love marriage, the initial year was hell. Wondered what i had done. But later things have gotten better and atleast to a agreeable state, Things r not atall what i dreamt of sexually, mentally etc. So all u gals and guys unless the product is tried and tested dont take it home, my lesson in life which i have learnt the hard way.





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    nirosha (@ j32.*) on: Tue Jul 27 23:37:27 EDT 2004




    Bluebee, what do you mean by the product is tried and tested? Did you not date and plan for your future together? Did you not have privacy at all to let your love grow? Did you not have a connection physically and emotionally before you married?

    If your problems started after marriage, it's probably because of the lack of a support system. Most Indian families are pretty hostile and negative towards love marriages anyway. Their expectation of the couple to iron out every wrinkle is high that the rest of the family either remains aloof or gets too meddling!





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    blubee47 (@ 4.13*) on: Fri Jul 30 01:42:14 EDT 2004




    Well Nirosha, my marriage was a mix of arranged and love, as my parents found the proposal and boy, butwe chatted on the internet and exchanged a lot of information and felt we really wanted to be with each other. So when my parents and his parents were ok with it we got married so we didnt really go out on dates or sit face to face and talk much at all. The entire process was internet based. (lives in US)
    The reason i write this is so that all u gals and guys who might be doing this beware even if u have spent a year talking to each other on the net go out a few times to see how the person behaves when u talk what interest this person really has etc.
    Dont spoil ur lives beleiving that love is blind etc. Be practical if something seem not ok u dont have to go thru with it. U will always meet somebody else.





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