~ Forget the bitter past ~

**kpriyachary** · 21st July 2005, 09:06 AM

[font=Courier, monospace]Wanna forget your past ?

Forgetting the past is the most easiest thing in life..

Of all the things the most easiest is getting out of the past
No wonder, you may even think what kind of person is she ?
But I know am talking sense...

Lets talk about the worlds anthem - ofcourse its LOVE.

Say you are madly, deeply in love with a person...
you might be totally inclined towards his/her love and you might even feel
to buzz out of world.. if you feel that relationship might not workout as expected ...

But tell me truly.. how many of you .. <there might be sure of lotts people reading this blog> who had some broken crushes, who had survived by some broken relationships.......but tell me true to your conscious... aren't you living now ?

May be , you might say that you are merely existing but not exactly living..

But at the end its that " you are LIVING......" you just cant deny the fact
So its that you are able to overcome the failures...

Why dont we realise that and step in future..... its possible ..Believe me !

So , this is it....any thing... beleive me anything in this world
can be tolerated, can be survived... failures are jus passerby

Believe me , am not telling its easy to forget past..
but rather am saying it isn't that tough to forget the past...

and ofcourse i agree , it even depends on mind and hearts strength,
Yeah , a strong and confident person can take jus a week nearly , may be even less to forget the past....but for a mild hearted person , it might take a month, maximum a year ... that tooo thats the worse case am talking about...

The present always has the capability of erasing the past.. but it always happens this way.

Its like passing through a dusty road, even after you scale forward, you will feel the dirts all over you....while passing through.. but if u keep looking back the path you walked.. it jus fills your eyes with the dusty path again.. so dont you feel its better to look ahead?

Present just works like pills... it keeps giving bad and sour remembrance often about your past . yeah i understand each and every little thing will remind you his/her presence...but as days goes by, your mind jus cultivates hatred towards re-visiting the past , so is your heart.

I hope even this blog of mine is a strong pill for you.. yeah am damn sure, you would have got reminded of your past... but this present blog would have surely given you a feeling.. a feeling of strength to over come your previous stops....

So buddies... jus try to take the present as the sweet pill and survive the past.
Thanks for your time.

"Anything is possible in world.. if you are ready to compromise with time "

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**Shekhar** · 21st July 2005, 09:55 AM

Kpriyachary,

Frankly I don't understand this 'forgetting the past' issue.
Why should one forget the past? Past has given us experience and hell lot of knowledge. You want me to forget what I learnt yesterday, and start afresh every day?
Our brain has its own mechanism. All the unpleasant experiences are invariably pushed to background and cannot be recalled easily. That is the defence against repeated suffering.
Forgetting is not voluntary. You cannot even if you want to.
To say 'forget the past' is glib. We should only conciously ensure that the 'past' doesnot negatively interfere in our decisions of the present.

**lordstanher** · 21st July 2005, 10:26 AM

Originally Posted by Shekhar

Frankly I don't understand this 'forgetting the past' issue.
Why should one forget the past? Past has given us experience and hell lot of knowledge. You want me to forget what I learnt yesterday, and start afresh every day?
Our brain has its own mechanism. All the unpleasant experiences are invariably pushed to background and cannot be recalled easily. That is the defence against repeated suffering.
Forgetting is not voluntary. You cannot even if you want to.
To say 'forget the past' is glib. We should only conciously ensure that the 'past' doesnot negatively interfere in our decisions of the present.

Shekhar,
for once I agree w/ u mate!

u've really got a valid point.......we shudn't condemn everything from the past as unwanted........there r many things worth learning from it by remembering them........!

**a.ratchasi** · 21st July 2005, 10:37 AM

Lets talk about the worlds anthem - ofcourse its LOVE.

Guys, the poor girl is talking about lost love. :P

**Akash** · 21st July 2005, 10:42 AM

priya chary, its really good... dusty road comparison is cool!!

**Badri** · 21st July 2005, 10:43 AM

Originally Posted by a.ratchasi

Lets talk about the worlds anthem - ofcourse its LOVE.

Guys, the poor girl is talking about lost love. :P

**kpriyachary** · 21st July 2005, 10:58 AM

lordstanher ,Shekhar , a.ratchasi & badri

Hey love was jus a example taken.. since love plays a major role in making
many re-visit their past..

and i jus wanted to convey what i felt for bitter past..
i always cherish my better past .. coz it gives a very nice meaning for living.. so the topic was all about forgetting the bitter past..

anyways thanks for ur comments

**kpriyachary** · 21st July 2005, 10:59 AM

Akash,

thanks !

**kpriyachary** · 21st July 2005, 11:03 AM

Originally Posted by Shekhar

Kpriyachary,

Forgetting is not voluntary. You cannot even if you want to.

You jus cant say that its impossible to forget.. i say its possible and thats the reason for my blog

**xlntbarani** · 21st July 2005, 12:21 PM

Hi.. KP..

the topic is good..

As.. I too agree with all your points.. but cant agree in the Whole..

Its not Cant..

I wont.....

Actually... In some thread.. when I came in.. to the hub.. I wrote some thing which nears this topic... but i am not sure... whether the 'write-up' answers this or over rides or diverts... but..

Will check it..

and If it doesnt suits - too.. will give the answer

how I agree with your points and
How I wont agree in the Whole.. K