Expecting replies from Married with Children hubbers :)
This weekend the 6 of us (3 couples) met up for a weekend of fun and laughter.We try to do that often..atleast twice a month if not more.We all live in different cities but within driving distance from eachother. After an awesome lunch while we were wondering what to do next my friends - a couple married for 3 years suddenly said that they had an announcement to make-yep they were going to be proud parents in lil more than 7 months time. There was a min of stunned silence.Ohh they were planning on having children some time just as we were..Of course we also love kids.Love the way they look with their cute adorable smile..smile at their attempts at crawling,walking..Enjoy their mazhalai..
We are planning on having them some day...but how did they decide that the time was rite??How does anyone decide that the time is right?
After being married for over 2 years does it automatically mean that we are ready for sleepless nights and cholic,For scrapped knees and broken teeth.Please dont tell me that you will know when the time is right ...I am worried that that time might never come :? Is there any instant which makes you feel ready or will you always be worried that you wont be handle the responsibility and still go ahead and bring a scrap of humanity into this world? Hubbers with children do you have any advice for me?
Re: Expecting replies from Married with Children hubbers :)
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Originally Posted by ssanjinika
Of course we also love kids.Love the way they look with their cute adorable smile..smile at their attempts at crawling,walking..Enjoy their mazhalai..
We are planning on having them some day...but how did they decide that the time was rite??How does anyone decide that the time is right?
sanjinika: Cute adorable smiles, crawling, walking and mazhalai will disappear before you know it and you will have a teenager in your hands. That is when your fun starts. :)
Doctors suggest that you have a baby before you are thirty to minimize complications in pregnancy. 35 at the latest, I think. If you are planning on more than one space them apart by about two years.
A word of caution: Bringing up children in the US takes a lot of effort! :)
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Originally Posted by rajraj
Doctors suggest that you have a baby before you are thirty to minimize complications in pregnancy. 35 at the latest, I think. If you are planning on more than one space them apart by about two years.
intha 35 age-a thaandittaa?? :cry: :cry: